I’ve had a front row seat to one of the greatest marriages in the history of time. Today, my parents celebrate 50 years of marriage! A tremendous feat! I’m extremely proud of my parents and want to publicly acknowledge their love, their sacrifice, and their unfailing commitment. You make me better, you aid my marriage, and I am so grateful for you.
I’ve written (and moreso, spoken) about my Dad on many occasions. He’s an amazing man, and is/was a leading example for me in my pursuit of TrueManhood. He has tons of characteristics that I love and admire, and I wouldn’t be half the man I am today if it wasn’t for him. Here are some of the major highlights:
- My Father loves my Mother unconditionally; everything he does is directly related to my Mother’s well-being, her concerns, her likes, her desires. His example of how a man cherishes his wife is second to none. #awesomehusband
- My Father serves my Mother unfailingly. For the entirety of their marriage, my Father has worked his tail off so that my Mother could have safety, security, comfort, and so that she would be able to do what she was created for. #whenamanlovesawoman
- My Father is the consumate gentleman. As a child, the example of being a gentleman was constant from my Father. My virtues related to being a gentleman (mostly in the area of Justice) is 100% correlated to my Father’s behavior and high standards. #gentleman
- My Father cherishes all women. Sincerely, my Father has a heart of service towards the fairer-sex… never failing to serve a female, no matter what the need may be. He’s always polite, always charitable, always deferent to the women he encounters. I cannot recall, even once, when I’ve seen my Father choose himself over a woman. He has always cherished my aunts and female cousins (there were far fewer of them than male cousins), and treated every female stranger with the utmost respect. #womenarethecrownofcreation
- My Father is a hard worker. Still today in his 70’s, with both knees repaired and a major back surgery, my Father does his own maintenance on his house, takes care of his vehicles himself, serves in numerous ways at his parish, helps me and my brothers, and serves on a non-profit board. The spirit of our bluecollar family, passed down from generation to generation, comes to me from him. #hardworker
I would also be remiss, especially on this most somber of days for America (9/11), if I didn’t mention my Father’s 30-year career serving our country as an enlisted serviceman in the United States Air Force. 30 years! Talk about dedication.
My Mother – I certainly don’t want to leave my Mother out of the conversation… and in fact, I couldn’t talk about my Father without talking about my Mother as well. She is a huge part of my Father’s character. From the moment they met, my Mother has challenged my Father to be who he is. She brings the best out of him, and holds him to the very highest of standards. It wouldn’t be a shock to tell you that their complementarity is so perfect that they make each other more holy; the point of marriage! The perfect way that my Mother fits my Father, and returns his love and service with more love and service, is a testament to her devotion and care for him. They truly are the perfect spouses for one another.
Jesus had Joseph and Mary – the Holy Family. I have Tony and Charlene – great examples of love, service, dedication, and faithfulness. Thanks Dad and Mom – Happy Anniversary!
I’m a huge proponent of “leading with your weakness”. By showing those who follow you that you aren’t perfect, that you make mistakes, and that you have weaknesses, it makes you real. It also shows people that we aren’t the sum of our failures. So, as embarrasing as this story is, I’m going to share it because I think it will help people and may also encourage them to take the steps necessary within their own situation to prevent problems like this from occurring.
Recently, my sister-in-law and her kids moved in a few houses down. It’s awesome having them nearby, and my kids really enjoy their cousins. Since it’s the summertime, they’ve been playing non-stop… riding bikes, going to the swimming pool, playing at the playground, and having a grand ‘ol time. However, with having cousins around, and additional adult supervision, our parenting has gotten a bit “loose”, we’ll say. Boundaries have expanded, and permission an after-thought. We have varying ages between the two families, so rules are different, especially in terms of the use of electronic devices, and access to the internet. I knew this, and had a conversation with my two oldest children (still quite young) about not being on any devices (smartphones, iPods, tablets, laptops, etc.), even if their cousins were. They obliged, knowing that we allow them some time on their Amazon Kindle Fire for Kids (with GREAT parental controls) a few times per week, and we went on our way. But a few days later…
My wife got a call from her sister saying something to the effect of “the girls are busted.” Apparently, she had walked past my niece’s bedroom and overheard my 6 year old daughter ask Siri “show me butt-naked people”. What?!?! She immediately went in and confescated the device and sent my daughter home to us. (Thankfully, my sister-in-law has Covenant Eyes on all of the devices in her home, so even if she wouldn’t have heard this verbal request, she would have received the emailed report for this inappropriate search and the links to everything that was viewed. Thank goodness she heard it immediately, and for the filter that blocked the search results!)
My daughter walked in and we could tell by her behavior that she knew she was in hot water. I began to ask her what happened, and she started to breathe hard, fabricate a story, and struggle to really get any words out. My wife and I had details from her sister, so we would know if she was lying or telling the truth. I didn’t want to pressure her, so we had her go into her room, telling her that we’d call her out in a short while. My wife and I had a powwow to figure out how we were going to respond. Here’s what we decided to do:
- Ask our daughter to tell us the whole truth. We wanted to know what happened at Auntie’s house in her cousin’s room.
- If she told the truth, she would still receive a punishment (for disobeying the original rule of “no devices”), but we would praise her for telling the truth and move on to discuss what she saw/did. If she told a lie and fabricated a story, the consequences of her actions would be much more severe.
- Make it clear to her that we love her.
- Explain the concept of pornography with the help of a great resource called “Good Pictures, Bad Pictures.” (We read and discussed chapter 1.)
- Teach her that the human body is a good thing, and that God made it beautiful. In addition, there are private parts and they are private for a reason. (FYI – private parts are those areas that we cover with swimming suits.)
- Teach her that being curious, about a lot of things, is okay and normal, but that she needs to talk to Daddy and Mommy, not ask Siri!
- Set the punishment for disobeying the original rule. (She lost her prized stuffed animals – a devastating loss for her.)
- Tighten the rules, house-wide.
- Explain our rules to the aunt/cousins so that the temptation to have our children break the rules would be lessened. (2 rules to remember: 1. our property and 2. no devices. They’re all still very little, so we want to keep rules easily understood and achievable.)
- Hug our daughter and tell her that we love her.
Some might be astonished that my young daughter was looking up porn on a wi-fi enabled device, but they shouldn’t be. Kids have more access to porn and other terrible things than some people want to admit. Their minds are curious and based on their exposure, whatever kind of media, influence, or consumption it might be, their knowledge of what to search or ask about varies. I’m still not really sure what spurred on this particular “ask Siri” search, but my best guess is that it came from an interest in mermaids.
Here’s what I know:
- I gave my daughter too much leeway and trusted her just a little too much. She’s tempted just like any other kid (or human, in general.)
- My daughter isn’t bad, evil, or sinful, but realistically curious and inquisitive. This means that I need to pay much more attention to her than I was, and be sure to teach her in a pro-active way, not a retro-active way.
- My wife and I teamed up well with our approach, were on the same page, were calm and clear, and followed-through like we needed to.
- I’m really grateful for Covenant Eyes on our devices and for the functionality and ease-of-use.
If you’re a parent, you cannot disregard this topic. None of us can. Every child is susceptible to the dangers of the internet, and the easy access points that are made available to them. Whether it be their own devices in your home, a friend’s device, or a school or library computer, the temptation to “ask Siri”, or “just Google it” is real. Informing our children ahead of time, and continuing to have the conversation is an absolute must! We should be arming them with the tools to be virtuous so that when they are faced with these choices, they choose what is right and good. Watch for more coming on this topic, and please take advantage of the 60-day free trial that Covenant Eyes is offering through my affiliate, good through August 31. Click HERE for the free trial.
I’m striving for TrueManhood. TrueManhood is what all men are called to, a life of virtue as an imitation of Jesus Christ, the TrueMan. It is the most fulfilling life a man can live. I strive, but I am far from perfect. I fail to live up to TrueManhood, and have a long road towards virtuous living. This lifestyle is difficult, but it is realistic, and it is achievable. To my point, TrueManhood is much more realistic with the help of good women.
This is my Mother’s Day post for 2014. It has been interesting, for me, as I became a father and my children grow older, the shift that has taken place surrounding Mother’s Day. The focus of Mother’s Day, for husbands of mothers of small children, is no longer on their own mother (although we are still grateful and appreciative – Happy Mother’s Day Mom!) but rather is derived from the family’s appreciation and admiration, thanksgiving for, and efforts of “Mommy.” This focus, it seems to me, is led heavily by those things specifically from the father’s point of view. The small children aren’t necessarily capable of intentionally creating, buying, or delivering thoughtful, sentimental, meaningful gifts or performing acts of gratitude, so the responsibility lands on that of the father.
I am notorious for getting the wrong gift, things my wife never asked for, indicated that she wanted, or has any use for. (Not all of my gifts are horrible, just most of them!) I lack originality and romance, sentimentality and thoughtfulness. It is a crippling affliction. This year, I’m writing this post as an attempt at a textual monument to my wife, the mother of my four beautiful children. Words cannot begin to explain. She is a true servant, compassionate, and tender, and incredibly thoughtful. One of my favorite characteristics of my wife is her intentionality; everything she does has a plan and is thought out and most importantly, purposeful. In addition to those, she is never self-centered. She challenges me in so many good ways to raise my level of living, and I am so grateful.
Catherine – you work tirelessly to support me in my endeavors, and are relentless in the rearing of our children. They are incredible because you make them incredible. They are lucky little kids, having you as their mother. I’m the lucky man that gets to call you wife, best friend, and soul mate. Thank you for all you do for us, we can never live up to your example, but will try our hardest.
All of these things speak to the beauty of how men and women are complementary, and that complementarity works to build both sides. For me personally, my wife’s complementarity is the greatest way for me to achieve TrueManhood. She assists me, as my helpmate, to refine me, challenge me, and inspire me to be the man that I so badly want to be, and the man that she and my children deserve. Because we are so intimately connected, as one flesh through our matrimony, her life is my life, and I am all the better because of it.
A single day for our mothers is almost a slap in the face, because there are no words, no amounts of gifts or money spent on them, nor thoughtfulness that we can put into anything for our mothers or for the mothers of our children that will even begin to compare to the love, sacrifice, and total self-gift that these women give, day in and day out. As a small token, for all the mothers out there, please accept this small gesture of thanks.
Have you seen the PSA style video “The Mask You Live In”? It talks about boys in our culture, and stereotypes of how boys handle the stresses of growing up male, in addition to the struggles of living up to the standards the culture and peers place on them. There are truths in the video, but I disagree with their take on “the 3 most destructive words you could say to a boy.” Here’s the video:
The suggestion is made that telling a boy to “Be a Man” is detrimental to him. If we’re speaking from the context of cultural manliness, then sure, I could see that. If, however, we’re speaking from the context of authentic masculinity (ie: TrueManhood), then this is absolutely what we should be telling our boys! We should be encouraging them, teaching them, forming them, and exemplifying for them what it means to be a man so they are able to set a goal and become what they were created to be. A TrueMan!
We must, unequivocally, call, lead, and guide our boys into true manhood. We must expect it, and set our boys up to meet the expectation. If we do not, they will land somewhere on either extreme. On the one hand, we have a “hyper-masculinity” (other negative words have been associated with this, such as “macho man or machismo”, “bravado”, “meathead”, “jock”, etc.) and on the other, we have an effeminate version of masculinity (which doesn’t even make sense), which is incredibly disordered. In fact, both versions are a false, counterfeit version, and are incredibly disordered.
- “Don’t cry.” Men, you can cry. God wouldn’t have given us emotion and tear ducts if He didn’t want us doing it. And oh yeah, Jesus wept.
- “Pick yourself up.” Yes, we’re going to fall. Pick yourself up and get back on track.
- “Respect.” Respect is earned. Give it, and you will likely gain it in return.
- “Proving masculinity.” Yes, this has to happen. This is how we grow in virtue, by proving our masculinity. This is very different from the view the video takes, which is speaking about becoming violent or using violence to be the proof.
- “Closeness.” This is very hard for males in our society! It is vital, essential, critical that fathers have a closeness with their sons! Hugs, kisses, embracing, physical closeness, as well as emotional closeness and a spiritual closeness are all so important between fathers and sons. (Thanks Dad, for always being close when I was a kid, and now.)
- “Vulnerability.” Our culture tells men that being vulnerable is feminine. Vulnerability actually requires strength.
- “Hyper-masculine.” When masculinity is distorted, it will appear to be either side of the extremes, but never what it should be.
What I don’t like about the video is that it generalizes all of the negative aspects of masculinity overall, as if there is or needs to be some redefined version of masculinity out there. No, there are two versions of masculinity: 1. The truth. 2. The lie. That’s why TrueManhood.com exists, to perpetuate the truth, and to help get rid of the lie. The truth is that a man (a human being with an XY chromosomal makeup) has the God-given ability, and the responsibility, to live up to what he was created for – to live virtuously. The lie is cultural manliness; the more power, money, sex, and stuff a male has, the more manly he is. Let’s work together, not at the loss of the truth, but together so that the truth can be proclaimed!
I am profoundly excited to bring you a great anti-pornography resource, a revised edition of a Pastoral Letter from Bishop Paul Loverde from the Diocese of Arlington, Virginia. This pastoral letter originally came out eight years ago, but has been reissued because of the severe and overwhelming need. “Bought with a Price” – Every Man’s Duty to Protect Himself and His Family from a Pornographic Culture. It includes a new foreword from anti-porn leader, Matt Fradd.
The intended re-release of this letter is March 19, 2014 – the Feast of St. Joseph, patron saint of fathers. I highly encourage everyone to read this letter and put what you read into action.
“Today’s father must protect himself and his children from the relentless assault of an increasingly pornographic culture; moreover, mothers share this sacred task. Every home now stands in the pathway of this attack on our children’s innocence and purity. If we are not vigilant, our sons and daughters will pay a steep and heartrending price.” p.6
Fathers – it is critical that we work to protect ourselves and our families from the evils of pornography. First, ourselves, and then those around us and under our care.
In a future post, I will write on the topic of “helping parents protect their children from the internet” – a talk that I give about the harms of the internet and how to practically handle the situation. One of the most important aspects of this topic is to have conversations with our children. If you think that your child isn’t or won’t be affected by pornography, you are wrong. If your children have internet accessible devices and you don’t know that they can (and probably do) access pornography, you are naïve. How then do you handle this? You talk about it! And it’s never too early to talk about it… when done properly, prudently, and age-appropriately. (Note: the average age of first exposure to pornography in America is now 8 years old and dropping rapidly!)
Do you expect your child to understand mathematics on their own, with no instruction? What about anatomy, biology, history? Certainly not. The old adage, “having the sex talk” is a misnomer, implying that parents should only speak to their children one time about sex. Simply check a box and it’s handled. This does not work. We should instruct our children on a properly ordered understanding of sexuality, and instruct them often. I start imparting knowledge on the topic very early with my children… even before they can truly understand. It sets the tone, and creates a solid foundation for them to grow upon. As each child gets older, the topic broadens, the seriousness increases, and the formation I desire heavily to provide to my children is strengthened.
Take the time and read this pastoral letter from Bishop Loverde, then act on it!
Did you know that we have a holocaust taking place in our country? It’s happening in every state, and it is legal. 4,000 human lives are being destroyed each day, and the courts support this innocent slaughter of human life, and we’re supposed to go along with it. Tax dollars, government subsidy, lobbyists, pharmaceutical companies, healthcare; they’re all wrapped up into it. It’s called Abortion.
It is unfathomable that we allow abortion, especially knowing all we know about it. There are countless facts, statistics, and logical arguments why abortion is murder, but I’m not going to get into any of those. I’m going to concentrate on the real problem. The problem with abortion is men.
Why? Plain and simple. 85% of all abortions taking place in America are performed on single women. That means that out of the 4,000 babies that were murdered today, 3,400 of those women who had an abortion were not married, and as many of you know, they feel they have no way out. When single women are out sleeping around, who are they sleeping with? Males. Who gets them pregnant? Males. (Yes, God plays a huge part in the creation of that life, too.) The facts continually lead back to the actions of the men.
If a woman is married, in a safe environment and protected, she isn’t likely to get an abortion. Facts are facts. These women feel led, protected and provided for, thus they welcome a new child. Women who aren’t, don’t. Men – when are we (as a gender) going to stop being selfish and self-serving and start protecting and cherishing women? If you’re not married to her, you have no right to her – don’t touch! She’s not there for your pleasure. Serve her! Take care of her! Love her!!!
I heard a story today of a 20-year-old single woman who recently found out she was pregnant. The sperm donor (best way to describe him… he isn’t married to her, isn’t her boyfriend, wasn’t even really her friend, just a “meaningless” hookup) told her “I’ll pay for everything. I’ll even give you a ride and drop you off. It’ll be fine.” Class act, right? Is the problem the baby? CERTAINLY NOT! Is the problem the young woman? Not really, although she plays into the equation. The problem is the man. I hate referring to this sort of male as a man, because he most definitely is not living like one.
Men – abortion is only available because we allow it to be… because, in some totally screwed up way, we necessitate it by our actions. Don’t be fooled, abortion is not about women’s health, women’s bodies, or women’s choice. That’s a huge load of garbage. And listen, I’m not saying that women don’t have anything to do with it, certainly they do, but the responsibility is on us. Abortion will cease when men stop sleeping around, stay faithful and monogamous, and stop allowing the abuse, assault and murder of innocent babies. The time is now, brothers.
I wrote an article for “Made in His Image” ministry on men and virtue. Typical stuff for TrueManhood, but something that Maura’s readers might not get a lot of. To help support her and what she’s doing, please click the link to take you to there.
What MIHI is all about is helping women who struggle with eating disorders and/or who were victimized by abuse. There is currently no other Catholic organization specializing in inpatient medical care for the healing of women, and Maura is working on creating this much needed resource. I greatly applaud Maura for her efforts. The issue of eating disorders and abuse can go hand in hand. For countless numbers of women, young women specifically, a lack of self-worth can spur into many psychological, physical, emotional and spiritual issues.
For men, the issue that is constantly looming over us is the issue of sexual integrity, mostly dealing with pornography. Not every man struggles, but just about every man did, does, or will. For women, one main issue (compared to men’s issues with pornography, lust, etc.) is self-esteem and eating disorders, most of the time stemming from abuse of some kind. Not all women struggle with this, but many do and more will if nothing is done about it.
I plan to write an article soon on the problems that women face when they fail to find their value from the proper source. Watch for that soon. You’ll be seeing more about MIHI on TrueManhood.com in the future.
VERY RARELY do I get excited about a movie debuting in the theaters. To put my theater-movie-watching in perspective, the last two movies I’ve seen in the theater have been “Tangled”, which I took my oldest daughter to as a special daddy-daughter date and the 4th Indiana Jones. (That one came out in the summer of 2008.) So, you can see that I don’t frequent the movie theater. Don’t get me wrong, I enjoy movies, but I struggle terribly to find time to go to the theater and I struggle even more with paying ticket prices for movies nowadays! (Tangled was a matinee with a coupon, and someone gave me free passes for Indiana Jones.)
BUT… I must say that I am VERY excited about an upcoming movie that is making its way to the big screen tomorrow (Friday, September 30, 2011). The movie is called “Courageous”. The producers of this film also produced the movie “Fireproof” (and a few others), which I thought was a good movie. If “Fireproof” was good, “Courageous” is great! I had the privilege of pre-screening the movie with my colleagues at our office and have the honor of being part of The King’s Men, one of the ministry-resources for men after they see the movie.
For the pre-screening, I went in very skeptical. I went in believing that Sherwood Pictures was going to make the movie cheesy with Bible innuendos and very heavy, to the point of burdensome, like they did in “Fireproof”. Not so. “Courageous” was very well done and had just the right amount of the “Jesus-factor” so as to still be relate-able as a tool for evangelization purposes with men who are non-believers. This movie has action, drama, suspense, thrills, excitement and a host of other great characteristics. I cannot recommend this movie high enough. Go see it, even at current ticket prices, and show Hollywood that Americans want good, wholesome entertainment and not the garbage they have been spewing for years.
This movie is real. It is about real men, attempting to live through some real life issues and situations. It’s very practical and very helpful. The acting is top notch, the storyline is right on and the cinematography is great. Again, I cannot recommend this movie enough. (The trailer is located on our homepage on the right side.)
After you see the movie, you may want to get involved. If you desire to follow in the example of the men in the movie, and become part of a small men’s group, I have a turn-key solution for you. I’m happy to recommend a format for a men’s small group meeting that is easily duplicated, dynamic, and proven. We do not charge dues, have no membership and offer incredible support to our leaders. Don’t try to reinvent the wheel – we have the track record of a program that works. Men’s lives are changed because of it. Men who invest themselves into a men’s small group experience extreme growth and positive change. Don’t wait another day! If your parish/church/group/city/area gather enough men together, I can personalize a leader’s training workshop for you and train all of your facilitators in a day-long training session, complete with resource manual and all the how-to’s and nuts and bolts you could ever need.
If we don’t currently have any groups nearby, maybe this is the day you step up and start one. Contact me for all the resources and support you need. Info@TrueManhood.com.
Almost two years ago I became aware of a very impressive young man named Ryan Kraeger. Ryan haswritten a few articles for TrueManhood.com before, so you may recognize his name. I got to know Ryan over email and social networking connections and am thoroughly impressed with not only his writing, but with Ryan as a man. He is young and vibrant and doing great things in our world.
First, I want to draw attention to his service to our great country! Ryan is a Staff Sergeant in the US Army and hopefully soon (November ’11) will be graduating from Special Forces training. Great job, Ryan – we are proud of you and honored by your sacrifice. (Ryan shares some of his military experiences in his writings. Great stories!)
Next, I would like to draw your attention to two books written by Ryan. They are hot off the presses and are awesome. I give my full recommendation of these books. The first is entitled, “What Every Boy Man Needs: A Young Soldier’s Thoughts on Christian Manhood”. The second is “My Dearest Sisters: Thoughts about Modesty from Your Brother…”. Ryan “gets it”, and I think his writings will help others “get it” too.
For more on Ryan and/or to order his books, visit his website, The Man Who Would Be Knight.
Many groups, including Morality in Media, The Pink Cross Foundation and the Coalition for the War on Illegal Pornography, are working hard to fight a new show that is supposed to begin airing on NBC in the fall. “The Playboy Club” will glamorize and celebritize pornography – this is not a good thing. Many people are in denial, or more perfectly stated, are simply ignorant, to the facts of the dangers of pornography. Study after study show the negative effects, and the law is already in place (ALL hardcore pornography is illegal) but little-to-nothing is done about it. Please support these groups and get Attorney General Eric Holder and the rest of the Department of Justice involved and prosecuting illegal pornography! Our obscenity and decency laws must be enforced.
NBC’s new series “The Playboy Club” hasn’t even aired its first episode, and some people already want it off the air.
First, NBC’s Salt Lake City, UT affiliate, KSL-TV, refused to air the show, saying that their station is “completely inconsistent with the Playboy brand.”
Now an anti-porn foundation is determined to shut down the show completely
“What’s shown in ‘The Playboy Club’ is not real—Playboy definitely damages people. It’s pornography, it’s sex trafficking and it exploits women,” the founder of Pink Cross, ex porn actress Shelley Lubben, tells FOX411.com. “The series looks like it’s all cute, taking place back in the old days—it seems harmless, but then they show a quick clip of three people going at it in the bathroom. NBC is breaking the law with this show—they’re not meeting FCC standards.”
The nonprofit group Morality in Media agrees.
“We’re launching a big effort with our web site, closetheclubonnbc.com,” Dawn Hawkins, executive director, Morality In Media, tells FOX411.com. “We’re asking supporters to sign the pledge to and to contact their local NBC affiliates and ask them not to air the show. And as soon as we discover who is sponsoring the show, we’ll ask our supporters to contact them as well.”
Hawkins charges that “The Playboy Club” glamorizes pornography. “We know now, years later, that pornography is very harmful to society. It leads to addiction in children and adults, increased sex trafficking violence against women—and ‘Playboy’ is really the root of all of this. We just don’t want to see it glamorized any further, which it will be if it’s aired on NBC.”
With NBC in fourth place among broadcast networks, new president Steve Burke is under intense pressure to increase ratings. “When he was appointed, Burke said he was going to push the envelope,” Hawkins explains. “They want to get their ratings up, and they know that controversy surrounding this show might help.”
While “The Playboy Club” might help NBC’s sagging ratings, it could also run afoul of federal law.
“We don’t know the specific content of ‘The Playboy Club’ yet, but reports are that it will include simulated sex and nudity,” attorney and president and CEO of Morality in Media Patrick A. Truman tells FOX411.com. “Simulated sex can be prosecuted by Department of Justice as obscene and nudity, so long as it is not obscene, can be prosecuted by the FCC. The U. S. Court of Appeals for the 2nd Circuit struck down FCC’s indecency regulations, but that ruling has application only in that circuit. The U.S. Supreme Court today agreed to hear an appeal of that ruling. We will file an amicus brief.”
In addition to Morality in Media’s filing, Truman is issuing a warning to the network—and to Playboy.
“Every advertiser on The Playboy Club will be boycotted, every local affiliate of NBC will be bombarded by a very large segment of society that is sick and tired of those making money off the sexual exploitation of women,” he said. “The NBC brand, as well as Playboy will suffer great cost.”
NBC did not responded to FOX411.com’s request for comment.