Men’s Formation & Accountability
Accountability is a crucial aspect of being a disciple of Christ. Accountability offers many positive things, and TrueManhood.com is here to help. Deacon Dave meets individually with men to work through whatever the man needs, in a setting similar to therapy/counseling, coaching, or spiritual direction, but with an emphasis on determining root sins, patterns of behavior, and establishing a plan of action. Men struggling with persistent sin (especially lust, pornography use, masturbation, anger, self-reliance, and so on), as well as men with marital discord, troubles at work, or men who are working on being better fathers, benefit from formation sessions with Deacon Dave.
Any interested man should email Dave@TrueManhood.com to gather more information and to sign up.
Pricing: Initial Sessions – 3 @ $150 (50 minutes.) Additional sessions – $100 for 50 minutes.
Q: Why does Deacon Dave charge for these sessions when others offer these services for free?
A: Deacon Dave knows that finances are always a question. He also knows – historically – that men who aren’t willing to put some “skin in the game” won’t have the motivation to stick with a process, program, or improvement plan. You might have success with another program, and we encourage you to try whatever you find. If you’re interested in jumping in with Deacon Dave, he’s available.
Q: What does the process look like?
A: A man and Deacon Dave will establish a meeting time over a video link, typically once per week but that is flexible on a case-by-case basis. The two of them will begin in prayer and then move toward assisting the man in digging into the areas of his life where he wants and needs assistance. Deacon Dave will offer suggestions and lay out a path toward formulating the proper action plan and will work to establish a “Rule of Life” with the man.
Q: What qualifies Deacon Dave to do this type of work with men?
A: Great question! In the internet age and the age of artificial intelligence that we live in, essentially everyone claims to be an expert. Deacon Dave doesn’t, though! He’s a man who is working to achieve what you are working to achieve! What Deacon Dave offers is his extensive Catholic education, formation, and life experience as a guide to help men out of the places he’s been in his life and into a better and firmer relationship with God the Father as a beloved son. (Please read through Deacon Dave’s biography to learn more about his credentials.) Deacon Dave does not sugar-coat his advice; he will call out sin and vice, and push a man to struggle through the difficult times, and won’t coddle a man. He will, however, walk alongside you and encourage you. This is not hazing, boot camp, or slavery – think of it as brotherhood. This process is for men who want to see results. As a member of the Roman Catholic clergy, Deacon Dave speaks with compassion and mercy, while also holding us to account.
Q: How long should I expect to be in Formation & Accountability?
A: You will start with the initial 3 sessions and then go from there. You may only need 3 sessions to get jump-started and onto a great path. That’s an investment of only $150 and less than 3 hours to see results. However, most men want to meet more regularly and see the value of weekly or bi-weekly meetings. Deacon Dave is flexible with you and works with your schedule. Is this intended to go on forever – no, not with Deacon Dave, but yes, he will encourage you to establish an accountability relationship with another man in your life. (Saints most often come in pairs!)
Q: What if I think I need more counseling help and not this form of formation?
A: Contact Sacred Heart Mental Wellness (info@sacredheartmentalwellness.com) or visit SacredHeartMentalWellness.com to establish a counseling relationship or to seek a referral.
Q: What if I have other questions and I’m not ready to commit to this process?
A: That’s understandable. Send Deacon Dave an email (Dave@TrueManhood.com) and ask your questions there. He’ll get back to you just as soon as he is able.
