When They Leave God Out

November 12, 2009 by  
Filed under Blog, Virtue

The-Good-Men-ProjectThere are some men’s sites out there, trying to do some good work, trying to “get” at the heart of manhood.  You may be familiar with The Art of Manliness, the National Fatherhood Initiative or maybe you’ve seen some footage recently on The Good Men Project – I’ve seen them all over the internet and videos of their TV appearances.  I’m glad these sites, projects, books and resources are out there for men.  However, when they leave God out, they’re leaving out THE important piece.  Without God, faith in God and love for God, a male simply cannot fulfill his role as a man.  Plain and simple.

Watch this video, and note, starting around 1:23, the attitude about “manhood being up for grabs” and “at a turning point”.  And again, starting around 2:10, “there’s no good answer” – in reference to what makes a man “good”.  And one last specific time to notice, 4:28 where again the notion of manhood is ever-changing and up to every one’s own interpretation.

I highly disagree with this line of thinking.  There IS a standard, a definition.  There is a specific way that a man can be a “good” man.  It’s called virtue!  Same with the *interesting* preacher from two posts ago, they’re missing the essential pieces about manhood.  God guides us, strengthens us, enlivens us.  Without God, we can’t live TrueManhood.

Man up!

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One Response to “When They Leave God Out”
  1. Mike Solomon says:

    Dave,
    Thank you for bringing this interview into the light. It really is scary when God and virtue are left out of people’s lives. What is truly scary about this interview and what these men are doing is that in their search they felt that there was no common thread; and if there is no common thread men aren’t held to any standard at all!! Which means anything goes, anything a man does can be called true manhood!! That’s really awful! I thank you Dave for answering God’s call to take up this fight and hold men to higher standards. I ask for your prayers for a high school guy’s group I am starting at the parish I am a youth minister at and it is all based on the virtues and what it means to be a warrior of the cross. God bless you and your family, Dave! Peace!
    -Mike