The Don't Song
Another video I stumbled across one day. Although these guys are doing parody, it’s true.
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"A Worldview that Leaves Me Cold"
This tid-bit came across my inbox today. I find it hilarious and frustrating at the same time. The point of why I’m posting it on TrueManhood today is that I want to encourage us all to think for ourselves and not get caught up in socially-enabled “End Times Fear”. God provides and is much bigger than global warming. Take care of your portion of the planet and keep living.
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“The brutal winter of 2009 is finally coming to an end in the Great Plains. Or is it? Temperatures across North Dakota have been five to 10 degrees below normal all winter long. Massive snowfalls have blanketed the Peace Garden State for months. As now, North Dakota is enduring an end-of-March blizzard. The people of Fargo are paying the price. The ice-jammed Red River is cresting more than 40 feet over normal, flooding everything that isn’t protected by the heroic efforts of North Dakota citizens building up and maintaining the levies. So, I ask you, what is the cause of all the cold, the snow, and the ice? Global warming, of course!
According to Kate White, a civil engineer with the U.S. Army Corps of Engineers, “climate change caused by global warming likely is changing ice conditions and adding to the unpredictability” of ice jams along the Red River, so she said.
Let me see if I get this. A “near-record snowpack,” along with below-normal temperatures, have led to more ice, which is acting unpredictably because of global warming? What am I not getting here? I’ll tell you what I am getting—more proof that apocalyptic visions of global warming are driven by a particular worldview. Forget the facts. Even President Obama, at least to some degree, has bought into it. Here’s what he had to say: “I actually think the science around climate change is real. . . . If you look at the flooding that’s going on right now in North Dakota . . . that indicates the degree to which we have to take this seriously.” Record snow is the result of global warming? Folks, what we have to take seriously here is the fact that our worldview determines how we see the world and how we live in the world. And we’d better have it correct, which is why I spend so much time talking about this on this broadcast every day.
Despite the fact that the globe has been cooling since at least 2002, or that near-record cold and snow have plagued much of North America all year long, all the proponents of global warming can see is—well, global warming. This is why its adherents in Congress and in the White House want curbs on greenhouse gases, potentially ruinous cap-and-trade policies, and curbs on oil exploration (at a time when we need to decrease our dependence on foreign oil). And if in the near future you start paying upwards of $5 a pound for ground beef, thank those in Congress who want to tax cow flatulence as a way to combat global warming. As the New York Times relates, renowned physicist Freeman Dyson has called “climate change an ‘obsession’—the primary article of faith for ‘a worldwide secular religion’ known as environmentalism.” Dyson accuses the adherents of this religion of “relying too heavily on computer-generated climate models that foresee . . . imminent world devastation as icecaps melt, oceans rise and storms and plagues sweep the earth.” But the models aren’t holding true. Which is why the global warming scientists need to examine their worldview. And then they need to step out of the computer lab and take a walk. But they’d better bundle up first.”
Put Them First
March 31, 2009 by admin
Filed under Fatherhood
It’s really easy to get busy with lots of things in life and, consequently, push our wives and children to the back burner. I want to challenge you to guard against this. If you’re not a husband or father yet, you can apply this to the important people in your life currently, but keep it in mind for your future – that’s when it really counts. How can a guy who’s so busy with work, taking care of the house and vehicles and working on other projects manage to put his wife and kids first? Simple – It’s a choice.
With everything in life, you have to choose. Don’t just talk, act. Don’t just wish, make it fact. It’s rewarding to know that my children know me, love me and learn from me – daily. In my life, here’s what I do to guard against pushing them out of the first spot:
I take every opportunity to be with them. This might mean feeding them, changing their diapers and/or putting them to bed at night. Whatever it is, I make an honest effort, daily, to do it. [As often as possible, I do the “extra” or “other” stuff when they are napping or asleep.]
I make myself present to them… that means that I’m interacting with them, reading to them, playing with them, holding them, kissing and hugging them, etc. This involves shutting the TV off and being actually present. This doesn’t mean simply being in the same area as they are.
I take every opportunity to be with my wife. If it can be with her and the kids at the same time, that’s what I prefer, but obviously, alone time is crucial. A strong marriage, between faithful, committed spouses, is a perfect example to children and one that can’t be replaced. It’s crucial to spend the alone time together to work on the foundational relationship within the family unit.
It’s easy to talk a big game. It’s Truly Manly to back it up with your actions.
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It Depends on How You Look At It
My wife and I woke up this morning to our truck missing. It was parked on the curb, locked. Apparently, someone thought they wanted/needed it more than we do.
I knew immediately, as Catherine came in from the driveway (preparing to leave for work this morning) and asked, “Dave, where did you park the Avalanche last night?”, that it was gone. I got up to look out the front windows, knowing that my looking wasn’t going to bring it back. I kissed her, told her it would be alright and she headed to work. I calmly called the local PD and reported it stolen. The officer was great and kept the conversation positive by saying “We have a 65% recovery rate, so don’t lose hope.” I could have chosen to look at it much differently than I did.
It depends on how you look at it…
On the one hand, someone had the audacity to violate my property. They found my possession more important for them to possess. They put a scare in the families who, at one time, felt safe in our private cul de sac. They caused me to question the security of my home and whether or not I should go out and purchase car alarms for each of my vehicles. It caused me lots of paperwork and hassle. They stole not only my vehicle but $4K worth of my stuff that was inside of it. How dare they.
On the other hand, I’m probably going to get a newer, nicer vehicle. I’ll most likely get all my possessions replaced and my family will move on and be stronger because we made a choice to look at the bright side. Through adversity comes unity within a family unit.
This sort of incident can eat away at a person. A person can let it consume them and let the emotions that come along with it form their attitude. I’m choosing to respond differently. I know that God will provide for us and that this happened for a reason. Good can come from this and I’m positive that it will. What good would it do me to complain? What good would becoming angry or frustrated bring me? Obviously, in this situation, what’s done is done. If the police find it and it’s not damaged, great. If it’s gone forever, then God is protecting my family from something.
When something like this happens to you or to someone close to you, set an example of how to react. Staying even-keeled and consistent with your emotions will be a strong witness. Remain strong in God the Father and know that He wants good for you. Be strong.
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The Priesthood isn't Weird
I think that sometimes people (both Catholic and non-Catholic alike) see the priesthood as something “weird” – a life of not only celibacy but loneliness and separation. I think it’s also seen as weird because it’s different (and radical) from what a so-called normal life is. It’s quite the opposite. Guess what… priests are men; men who heard a call from our Lord and followed it. They want to serve our Lord. His will, not theirs. Being in my line of work, I’ve met many many priests. Overall, I’d say that most of them are just ordinary men. They like sports, good food, drinking a beer or two and hanging out.
If you’ve never seen this video, please check it out. It is a shortened version of the United States Conference of Catholic Bishops DVD called “Fishers of Men”. It’s a cool video…
[youtube=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vDOk1biKqkE]
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All or None
Christ requires that we are all or none. There’s no middle ground when you are a follower of Christ – a Christian. I recently heard it put like this… if life was a game of Texas Hold’em, Christ would ask us to go “all in” – that’s the only bet allowed. Why is it so hard for some people to “go all in”? Why is it so hard to let go of control and simply let God? I’ve been blessed, in regards to this situation, to have a trusting disposition. I rely fully on and I know, wholeheartedly, that He will provide all that I need and more.
Trust is a huge piece that goes into following Christ. And trust, although seemingly insignificant at times, plays a vital role in pushing all our chips into the center of the table. The Catechism tells us that Adam, the first man, lost trust in God his creator, thus, the first sin. What sort of trust level do you have in God your creator?
I know that some things are uncertain and some things are scary, but relying on God to get you through them is a vital part in following Him. We’re given amazing examples in Scripture of men who trusted – namely, Abraham. His level of trust, obedience and faith is incredible. Read his story in the Scripture and you’ll see what I mean. When it comes down to it, he chose trust over everything else and God rewarded him for it.
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I'm Watching You Dad
March 26, 2009 by admin
Filed under Fatherhood
I thought that this video went well as a “part 2” to my last post.
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